42% of Pastors Left or Considered Leaving Their Ministry*

Feeling alone, unhappy at home, burned out, and hurt by the church are typical reasons.

*Barna Pastoral Burnout 2021-22

Transforming Lives Through Emotional Health

Pastors can often feel alone, isolated, and unequipped, grappling with burnout and unresolved issues from their past. These challenges can cloud their calling and impact their effectiveness in ministry. At Growth Seekers, we believe in the transformational power of emotional health. Emotionally healthy pastors find more value in their ministry, manage conflicts healthily, enjoy happier marriages, lead more effectively, and foster spiritual health not only in themselves but also within their congregations.

Mission

Growth Seekers for Pastors and Pastors’ wives is a small group experience focused on emotional and relational health from a Biblical perspective.

Vision

Growth Seekers desires the creation of a nationwide, Biblically based community of emotionally healthy pastors, their spouses and their churches.  

Our ministry was born out of a passion to support both pastors and their wives. Our goal is to help develop relational skills to better navigate personal relationships and ministry challenges.

  • Group Experience

  • Safe Space

  • Spiritual Growth

Our Approach: Experiential Learning and New Tools for Growth

What sets Growth Seekers apart is our emphasis on experiential learning over traditional book studies. We challenge and assist pastors to not just learn but experience growth, providing new tools for building strong relationships, such as:

  • Attuning vs. Reflective Listening: Enhancing connection and understanding in conversations.

  • Emotional Awareness: Naming and understanding emotions in oneself and others.

  • Reshaping Narratives: Identifying and changing the internal stories that shape reactions and relationships.

  • Meeting Relational Needs: Recognizing and fulfilling the relational needs essential for personal and professional growth.

  • “Growth Seekers was the most significant emotional healing I’ve experienced. I’ve been in therapy and women’s Bible Studies for many years, but Growth Seekers helped me experience deep relationships, and healing, and a feeling of being forgiven by God”

  • "My marriage is better because I’ve learned skills to connect deeper with my wife."

  • "This is one of the best things I’ve done in my life."

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Group Experience

Growth Seekers is a ministry focused on facilitating spiritual growth in the context of safe and accountable communities. In small groups, meeting over the course of a semester, we further develop skills to grow spiritually, emotionally, and improve relationships. The basis for the course is Healing is a Choice by Steve Arterburn, Dr. Henry Cloud and Dr. John Townsend's How People Grow, and Dr. Henry Cloud's Changes that Heal.

Survey and Additional Resources

Feeling overwhelmed is more common than you might think, especially in the lives of those who dedicate themselves to serving others. Pastors and pastors' wives carry the weight of their congregations' needs, often facing immense pressure, unrealistic expectations, and conflicts that can leave them feeling drained and isolated. It's hard to find a moment for self-reflection amidst the demands of ministry and community leadership.

Yet, acknowledging these challenges is the first step towards finding balance and support. We understand the unique burdens you bear and the courage it takes to address them. That's why we invite you to take a moment for yourself and participate in our specially designed survey. It's a confidential, compassionate space to assess how you're really doing and to start exploring pathways to well-being and resilience. Beyond this, we are here to provide resources and guidance tailored to assist you in dealing with your struggles, offering a beacon of hope and practical support. Your dedication deserves support. Let's begin this journey together, towards a healthier, more supported you.

Join Our Community

If you are seeking increased fulfillment in various aspects of life, such as personal growth, marriage, and ministry, as well as aiming to contribute to the growth of your church community, you may find joining Growth Seekers beneficial. Our specialized programs cater to pastors and pastor's wives, equipping them with essential tools and encouragement for a more fulfilling ministry experience. Reach out to us today for further details on commencing your path towards emotional wellness and enhancing your leadership capabilities.